How to Protect Your Creative Time as a Mom

If you’ve ever sat down to create only to be interrupted by a snack request, a pile of laundry, or that little voice whispering, “You should be doing something more productive,” — you’re not alone.

As moms and artists, we carry two beautiful callings that often tug in opposite directions. We love our families deeply, but we also feel this nudge to create — to make, to dream, to explore, to use the gifts God placed inside us. And yet, when we finally carve out time for art, distraction and guilt creeps in.

Here’s the truth: your creativity isn’t selfish — it’s sacred. Let’s talk about how to balance motherhood and art making in a way that honors both your family and your God-given creative spirit.

1. You're called to Creativity, Motherhood, AND Peace

Motherhood is a ministry — and so is creativity. When you make space to create, you’re not neglecting your role as a mom; you’re nurturing the person God designed you to be.

You can't pour from an empty cup. Your art time can become a sacred moment of restoration — a way to refill your soul so you can pour out love more fully. You are a better mom when you also take care of yourself, mentally, physically, and spiritually.

“For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” — Ephesians 2:10 (NLT)

When you honor your creative calling, and prioritize your peace of mind, you’re teaching your children that obedience to God’s gifts in your life, and protecting your peace, are not just goals. Also, that investing in your mental wellbeing is just as important as how you care for yourself physically.

2. Let Go of “Perfect Balance”

The idea of perfect balance is a myth. Some days, your creative space will be tidy and productive. Other days, the crayons will roll off the table, and you’ll feel like you’ve accomplished nothing. That’s okay.

Balance isn’t about equal time — it’s about aligned priorities. There will be seasons when motherhood takes center stage, and others when creative opportunities bloom. Give yourself grace for both.

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” — Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NLT)

Instead of striving for constant balance, think in terms of rhythm, such as an ebb and flow. Create in small pockets when life is busy, and in longer stretches when space opens up.

3. Protect Your Creative Time With Intention (and Boundaries)

Your creative time won’t happen by accident — you’ll have to claim it with gentle intention. Here are a few ways to make it work in real life:

• Schedule creative hours. Write them on the family calendar so everyone knows Mom has “studio time.” Even an hour a week matters.

• Say no with peace. When you protect creative time, you’re saying “yes” to obedience, restoration, and the healthy version of yourself your family needs.

Remember: your art time may be a time sacrifice for your family — but it’s also pouring into them by investing in your wellbeing so you can keep your heart full.

All this said, there are ways you can include your family - more on that later...

4. Use Small Moments Wisely

You don’t always need a quiet studio or a three-hour block to make something meaningful. Creative growth often happens in the small, in-between moments.

• Sketch while waiting in the car line.

• Write ideas or verses in your journal during nap time.

• Keep a small project box on hand so you can pick up where you left off easily.

Consistency matters more than length. Tiny, faithful steps add up to beautiful progress over time.

“Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” — Zechariah 4:10 (NLT)

5. Trade Guilt for Gratitude

Guilt says, “You’re taking too much time for yourself.”
Gratitude says, “Thank You, Lord, for this moment to create.”

When guilt rises, pause and reframe your thoughts. You’re modeling creativity, balance, and spiritual self-care for your children. They’re watching you show what it looks like to live with purpose — to use your gifts in ways that honor God.

Your art doesn’t compete with your role as a mother; it complements it. Both require love, patience, and a willingness to start again each day.

“Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” — 1 Corinthians 10:31 (NLT)

6. Invite God Into the Chaos

Some days, paint water will spill, deadlines will shift, and your plans will go out the window. But even then, God meets you right in the middle of the mess.

Ask Him to guide your priorities, to fill your creative time with peace, and to multiply your energy when you’re running low. You don’t have to juggle it all perfectly — you just have to walk in step with Him.

7. Invite Your Family Into the Process

Even though it is important to have your own time to create, inviting your family/children into a creative process with you is an amazing way to inspire their creative growth, demonstrate stewarding gifts, show them love, and grow connection. Here are two ways you could do this:

1. Choose a short, simple project that you can all do together. Think simple and age appropriate materials - craft paint, glue sticks, smocks - but also have fun experimenting like a kid again with non-conventional materials. Just do a quick google search for something that would fit your family's interests. This is great for younger kids who need more direction, but it can be expanded to become a collaborative, family artwork.

2. Choose a short, simple project that your kids can work on while you work on your own project. Share the creative space and time together, maybe even the materials, but work individually on separate projects. This could look like choosing an art prompt and seeing what everyone creates, or, asking your kids to choose their own project, or even buying a premade craft project kit, and letting them work on their own project while you work on yours.

Conclusion
Motherhood and art don’t have to compete — they can beautifully coexist. When you give yourself permission to create without guilt, you nurture the parts of you that God will use to bless your home and your community.

✨Remember—your creative time matters. It’s how you refill your cup and stay connected to the One who made you to create. If you’re looking for a way to keep that spark going, check out my 30 Days of Scriptures & Sketchbooks. It’s a month-long journey of faith-filled creativity designed to deepen your walk with God while building a beautiful art habit you’ll look forward to every day. (If you can't devote time daily, no worries, each "day" can be completed in your own time & includes a scripture reading, encouraging pep talk/devotional, & a sketchbook prompt.

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